Bruh... this isn't even the pet peeves thread anymore (since those are just relatively small annoyances and funny rants), this is straight up venting serious frustration and anger which I truly do understand (peeps do need a open avenue to express their emotions and thoughts that isn't a potentially self indulgent echo chamber), however like most things said in anger I would advise taking a step back and remember why we are here in this community in the first place.
I do agree with Ant tho, the last thing we need is yet another major division in the community and perpetrating the US vs THEM metality, keep in mind there's over 8 billion humans out there with different cultures, values, morals, humour, etc. Conflicting arguments (As shown in RVR) are inevitable which is further exasperated by the "Rules Vs Principles" debate.
Overall it's a no win situation for those in authority, making off-site standards stricter will simply piss off some users but doing nothing with piss off other users.
Pardon my long ass totally not a mini-mod comment but that's my take on the situation as a mere observer and someone who genuinely doesn't want anyone to get into trouble for being transparent on this thread.
Ironically I rarely used Discord anymore due to some people being far too transparent to randoms online.