Look, I used to have genuine trolls that constantly terrorised me for 3 years in a row, by bombarding me with real life gore and gorn images, death threats, rape threats, and genocidal bigotry towards autistic people in general, just because they did not like our character statistics. Oh, and they also uploaded over 500 disgusting **** videos with my username in them all over the Internet, so that is the main thing that people still find if they google my username.
That was obviously legitimately completely over the line, but it is still nothing compared to the extreme levels of political oppression that some of our members that I know, and likely many others here, have to endure every day of their lives, including legitimate threats to the lives (or even worse) of them and their families if they ever say anything that is perceived as contrary to the wills of the ruling classes of their countries.
I have a history with severe mental illness and suicidal depression, due to being completely overmedicated by bad medicines ordinated by incompetent professionals for several years, and have consistently tried to help all members with similar problems who have approached me in private or that have seemed to be in tormented states of mind, so I am definitely not trying to be unsympathetic to people who are in mental pain. However, we cannot ban and utterly condemn people over simply being somewhat rude, or act as if they committed unforgivable crimes that caused immense amounts of emotional harm.
At the end of the day we all need to at least try to grow some measure of thicker skin over the years or we won't remotely be able to survive and endure, much less thrive, in a world as harsh, corrupt, deceitful, and ruthless as this one very often is if we look at from a wider perspective.
My apologies if I went too far in my response, and I hope that you will reconsider and not leave this community, as I think that you have been a well-behaved member. I am usually trying to keep any toxic bickering to a minimum when I encounter it. I am mainly just saying that we need some sense of scale and proportion as well, and that we should try to not be too oversensitive and unforgiving.