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Why does it matter, why the hell are you leaking personal dms on a messenger site with real life names. Did you ask for his consent???@GreatIskandar14045 kinda of made his name public here tbh.
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Why does it matter, why the hell are you leaking personal dms on a messenger site with real life names. Did you ask for his consent???@GreatIskandar14045 kinda of made his name public here tbh.
He already gave consent to others to do that lol.Why does it matter, why the hell are you leaking personal dms on a messenger site with real life names. Did you ask for his consent???
Also, for the record, concerns about enormous numbers of innocent human lives being lost through a very onesided massacre shouldn't be conflated into a context of bigotry or cheering for a favourite sports team. But that is all that we should say about that subject. Discussion discontinued in that regard.What happens if someone says they support Israel or Hamas and claim that Israel is modern day Nazi Germany or Hamas a terrorist org or says decolonization type shit? Or supports biden or trump in a discord server. I'm asking cause ever since the first ban we've been moving more and more into going banned for the slightest opinion we don't like which wasn't even posted on vsbw but a dm or private discord server.
I want to comment on this because this situation has led to several off-site conversations and I'm tired of having them, so I will use my response here to set the record straight as to no longer have this matter be misinterpreted.Reporting @StrymULTRA for reasons that I hope are obvious. This is an off-site matter, but I would like to cite Shmooply's permaban as precedent case, as that was for more or less the same reason (ie; overt transphobia).
I don't think I even support a ban, the thing I'm on the fence about is the suicide comment and he already apologized for that months ago, which was accepted at the time.So should we apply Strym's ban, or wait for him to respond first?
I have a last thing to say about this whole situation.So should we apply Strym's ban, or wait for him to respond first?
What about we move this on the private forum? It's literally made for this kind of stuff, heck, having screenshots here posted in a public place is kinda making me feel "exposed" with all these OOC screens.I think that a ban might prevent him from seeing our posts here, so I would personally prefer option 2.
Covers the full story. Because yeah, you didn't do so to Fuji directly, but you have made such comments directly to another trans user before - that being Curry.I didn't do anything against Fuji, just made some crass jokes in places where she's not and that's it, on the other hand, nor have made transphobic stuff onsite. Heck, our offsite rules do not cover this kind of stuff, but people seem to convenientely forget about it.
How in the damnation was I supposed to know that?Covers the full story. Because yeah, you didn't do so to Fuji directly, but you have made such comments directly to another trans user before - that being Curry.
It was more an argument dismissing mine about Topaz not being female with this comparison, not Curry literally having a YT channel.Curry saying "I have a YouTube channel and a male voice. Transgender people exist" in response to what you seemed to be saying - at least in my eyes - is pretty blatant as far as saying you're trans without actually saying it goes
How is it "super forcing" to bring up that you said "trans people don't exist" directly to a trans woman who was pretty open about the fact that she was, in fact, trans. Come on nowIt was more an argument dismissing mine about Topaz not being female with this comparison, not Curry literally having a YT channel.
This is like super forcing, come on.
They never told me directly "I am a transwoman", so I just assumed they weren't.How is it "super forcing" to bring up that you said "trans people don't exist" directly to a trans woman who was pretty open about the fact that she was, in fact, trans. Come on now
Not making yourself look better with the motive accusations. I just felt that what I mentioned before was a pretty clear indicator that she's trans.They never told me directly "I am a transwoman", so I just assumed they weren't.
Don't try to warp my thoughts like that, it's just you wanting me to get banned for the sake to at this point.
I hope you do realize the entire reason Curry made this comparison was me claiming that Charmander has a YT channel (which is this, only that he deleted all the vids fsr).Not making yourself look better with the motive accusations. I just felt that what I mentioned before was a pretty clear indicator that she's trans.
Ok, what is her YT channel?To me, it seemed clear that she was outright using herself as an example to say "yeah, trans women with male voices and YouTube channels exist, I'm one such person." If that's not how you saw it, then what else can I really say?
I don't need to go searching for a YouTube channel just to make a point. First of all, that's weird. Second, my point was about interpretations of what's being said. I literally just said that if you didn't see it that way, there wasn't much else for me to say.Ok, what is her YT channel?
Because this is getting unironically in a semantics debate and I am not tollerating that.
I just interpreted that message as this, how was I supposed to know she's actually a trans person, given that was my first ever interaction with her?
Not that the reactions were much better, too, especially from @GarrixianXD, who is supposed to be a staff.Bullying is obviously not acceptable in any direction.
I'd also like to make a little report about the Pet Pevees thread, for 7 pages straight people have done nothing but dogpiling me and adding even more drama.
This is the reason why Slander Threads got removed after all.
I'm an avid watcher of the pet peeves thread and I attest that I have no protests if staff members must delete plenty of messages there to make sure it stays on-topic and doesn't be a replacement for slander threads. I wouldn't be bothered at all, because I think the thread is gaining such a bad reputation contrary to its purpose. This leads me to how I also want to attest that it is not primarily a replacement for slander threads, so deleting the entire thread would get rid of a lot of fun history that wasn't breaking the rules.Bullying is obviously not acceptable in any direction.
Excuse me but I was rather referring to the discussions about the High 1-B Fungus Manipulation thing when I typed out “”. Though, perhaps it appeared out of context and be quite misleading so I’ll delete my comment.Not that the reactions were much better, too, especially from @GarrixianXD, who is supposed to be a staff.
I think that this seems reasonable.I'm an avid watcher of the pet peeves thread and I attest that I have no protests if staff members must delete plenty of messages there to make sure it stays on-topic and doesn't be a replacement for slander threads. I wouldn't be bothered at all, because I think the thread is gaining such a bad reputation contrary to its purpose. This leads me to how I also want to attest that it is not primarily a replacement for slander threads, so deleting the entire thread would get rid of a lot of fun history that wasn't breaking the rules.
No problem. I know that you are a good helpful and hardworking staff member.Excuse me but I was rather referring to the discussions about the High 1-B Fungus Manipulation thing when I typed out “”. Though, perhaps it appeared out of context and be quite misleading so I’ll delete my comment.
I don't think I even support a ban, the thing I'm on the fence about is the suicide comment and he already apologized for that months ago, which was accepted at the time.
Okay. Noted. Perhaps we should shorten the ban further then?
The sole reason I think this does fall against our offsite rules is the fact that some of it was directed towards Curry (to her face, specifically). I think that was a poor play and is the worst of the evidence brought up. Mixed with existent warnings for at least somewhat related matters (causing a stir amongst other users), I think some level of action is justified. If we want to pivot away from action (shall wait to hear from the rest of the class on that), I would be satisfied with a "last warning" affair. My wish in this situation is that Strym approach these matters more delicately.
So, what should we do here?I think that only bureaucrats, administrators, and thread moderators should discuss this issue here from this point forwards. Strym can answer questions from them though.
Since I didn't comment on this issue but was there from start to finish in this whole back and forth I agree with this opinion. But if I am outvoted then so be it.I am alright with retracting my proposal for a ban via Abstractions voice of reason. But agree with a final warning; he clearly did not intend for his jokes to be taken seriously. But at the same time, we should not be excusing total lack of common sense as it's still a heavily bad influence to be saying slanderous comments and slur words even if offsite or not spoken with ill intent. But a final warning to avoid pursuing this type of thing regardless of taste in humor is reasonable, or at least try to make sure the places you make them are much more secure; such as a one on one DM with someone who also shares the type of humor that you both agree to not share DMs of your jokes.
I am alright with retracting my proposal for a ban via Abstractions voice of reason. But agree with a final warning; he clearly did not intend for his jokes to be taken seriously. But at the same time, we should not be excusing total lack of common sense as it's still a heavily bad influence to be saying slanderous comments and slur words even if offsite or not spoken with ill intent. But a final warning to avoid pursuing this type of thing regardless of taste in humor is reasonable, or at least try to make sure the places you make them are much more secure; such as a one on one DM with someone who also shares the type of humor that you both agree to not share DMs of your jokes.