I take it you two are probably in a joking tone, but you make it seem like this is something Jojo fans commonly complain about, and I can infer that some are more serious about it. I already knew Jojo fans can be toxic when they can't accept that Sakuya stomps Dio, and with how they use the argument of "only stand users can see and interact with stands" to think that all fictional characters from outside jjba automatically can't counter stands at all, which is stupid. But getting mad at someone because they're confused or made a small mistake is taking it a step further.
I said "it's a long story" for a reason, but you just jumped to conclusions that I may have watched it in the wrong order on purpose, as if it's entirely my fault. Which wasn't the case, because I watched it in the wrong order by accident. If I were to summarize what happened (I don't even remember it that well), what essentially happened is I was confused, I didn't know which part was which and where I was supposed to start. This was due in part to ********* not outright telling you what part it was you were looking at, not in the title, nor in the description/summary. For example, for part 3, ********* didn't title it "Jojo's Bizarre Adventure Part 3", they titled it more along the lines of "Jojo's Bizarre Adventure Stardust Crusaders", and nowhere in the summary/description did they say that it was part 3. I had no way of telling through that site which title corresponded to which part. Because I didn't have a number telling me which order they go in, I was disoriented, so I picked one and hoped for the best. Now, I probably could've just looked it up or gotten help on what order I should've watched it in. I'm not entirely sure why I didn't back then, but one explanation could be that I'm stupid today, so I was probably even more stupid four years ago. But still, it's probably not entirely my fault, since this could've been avoided in the first place if ********* would've made it clear in the title or description, or both, what position in the series it is, without me having to rely on other sources. Before you try to rub it in my face that I shouldn't of been so stupid back then, just stop. It's in the past now, at least I didn't make the mistake a second time, it might not matter because there's a good chance I'll never get around to finishing the series, and I've already said enough.
But to elaborate more on what specifically happened. So I picked part 3 first... I watched it while being unsure if it was where I was supposed to start or not. This was in 2017. I finished part 3. It was alright I guess, but looking back on all the anime I've watched before and after that point, it's not my favorite by any stretch of the imagination. I then guessed which part came next, like I had guessed which one came first, both guesses being inaccurate. I ended up on part 1. I proceeded anyway despite it being obvious that it was in the past relative to part 3. I couldn't get past the first two episodes without getting bored of it. I dropped the operation until further notice. Or until... about a year ago, or at least a few months ago. I then decided to get my shit together and learn which part is which and what order they go in. I was willing to give the series another chance. So I tried part 1 again since that's the start of the series. I made it further, almost to the end of part 1 I think. I just no longer felt like watching it at that point as I had other things to do and other series to watch, it was at this point I realized jjba might not be my cup of tea if it had such a low priority. At least I enjoyed part 3 more than part 1, showing the series gets better when stands are introduced, though from my perspective, only marginally so.
The last point I want to make is that not enjoying the series that much isn't the only thing preventing me from giving it a third chance. I'm also reluctant to get into the fandom for a few reasons. For one, if I were a jjba fan, people would call me a gay **** sucker similar to how people already think I'm a lolicon just because I'm a Touhou fan. Joining these types of fandoms only subjugates me to more of those generalizations. Second, already been over how they're toxic. I'm already a bit toxic myself because of how the Touhou fandom assimilated me, but you already know there's several things I dislike about Jojo fans, so that's why I don't want to become one myself. However, if I do become a Jojo fan eventually and hypothetically it turns out the community is not as bad as I thought, then the other thing still stopping me is that I'm not that interested to begin with. After all, I didn't like parts 1 and 3, so how could I be a fan of something I don't like? Still, it could turn out that the rest of the series is better than parts 1 and 3, which I don't know for sure. There's still a chance I might try the series again someday because of that, just don't count on it.